If you have ever attended an Indian wedding as a guest, then you certainly know that it is a pompous, colorful ceremony, giving pride of place to traditions. Also, it is necessary to choose suitable clothes. Need to see a little more clearly, in order to choose your outfit as best as possible? Here are some tips.
Find out about the themes prepared by the bride and groom
Whether you are in France, India or another country in the world, the bride and groom always have well-defined ideas for their wedding. Not all opt for a traditional ceremony, some play the game of the regressive theme, full of activities, while others still bet on the party and the hyper modern. Before going to the wedding dressed in the clothes that you thought were appropriate for the situation, it is better to find out precisely about the expectations of the couple who invite you.
Traditional Indian Clothing for Female Guests
There are several solutions that can be considered for women. Indeed, there is no shortage of traditional women’s clothing, and all have their advantages.
The Wedding Sari: The sari is probably the most common outfit in India. It is a symbol of grace, elegance and pride. This garment consists of a simple sheet that is wrapped around the waist and tied on the shoulder. There are saris of different sizes and colors, with more or less patterns and embroidery. It will then be necessary to wear it as Indian women do, that is to say over a bodice and a petticoat.
The Wedding Lehenga: This long skirt, often decorated with embroidery, is worn with a matching petticoat and top. This outfit leaves part of the belly bare. To cover yourself, you can opt for a dupatta, a shawl that will be placed on one shoulder.
The anarkali suit: this is certainly the best solution if you want to shine as a guest at a wedding. This dress is both elegant, trendy and dressy, but it allows you to enjoy a certain freedom of movement. Many colors and embroideries can be considered, this garment allows you to express your creativity. To accessorize it, opt for a clutch and a pair of shiny shoes.
Whatever clothing you choose, it is recommended to opt for a comfortable outfit. Marriage in India is a very long ceremony, it is better to feel comfortable. Are you planning to wear a sari? In this case, the “ready made” version is definitely the one we recommend. Indeed, it is a sari that is easily tied, you will not need to drape it yourself.
Traditional Indian Clothing for Male Guests
Gentlemen, for an Indian wedding, forget the severe costume. Here we are betting on colorful traditional clothes:
The Kurta: This outfit consists of a loose shirt, going down to the knees, completed with the pants of your choice. You can opt for the kurta-paijama, loose in shape, the shalwar, a wide garment tightened at the ankles, or a dhoti, a piece of fabric that is tied at the crotch. With the kurta, you do not risk making a faux pas! As for accessories, we choose a pair of sandals for example, and a dupatta.
The Sherwani: Often compared to the famous British frock coat, the Sherwani is a large coat worn for special occasions in India. It is adorned with buttons on the chest and falls to the calves. With this outfit, you will be elegant and very chic.
Weddings are of great importance in India, for the bride and groom and their families who organize this event. Therefore, it is essential to be well informed before getting dressed. We now suggest you discover the mistakes to avoid, to best select your outfit.
What mistakes should be avoided?
Shoes: At an Indian wedding, it would be inappropriate to opt for stiletto heels. No one will be offended, however, you may experience some discomfort. Indeed, this very long ceremony may cause discomfort and pain. Prefer flat sandals for example, much more comfortable and more suitable for an Indian wedding.
There are some colours that you should absolutely avoid: black, white, grey or brown are banned in India. Conversely, choose an outfit with a dominance of red, pink, orange or yellow. You will make a splash! This advice is valid for both men and women.
Relatively discreet makeup: While in the West, guests should avoid wearing a white dress, in India, makeup should be discreet for the same reasons. It would be inappropriate to compete with the bride! Opt for a light complexion, slightly smoky eyes and a nude mouth.
Jewelry: These accessories are of particular importance in India. Therefore, it is essential to select them as best as possible. Forget diamond or silver sets. We prefer gold and very discreet costume jewelry, which will not be able to overshadow those of the bride.
Hairstyle: In India, it is the bride who wears the bun. Also, prefer a nice blow-dry, curls or waves, which will be much more suitable.